The Importance of Responsibility in Relationships

I think a lot of times people put the blame on the other person for things that are happening in the relationship, and they just need to take responsibility on themselves. There's this like, again, this kind of like psychological move, these like lies that we tell ourselves in order to maintain the same kind of existence that we have right now. Then we kind of get in this trap where we again kind of like lie to ourselves when in fact maybe some like radical change needs to take place.