The Suffering of a Break Up

If we believe that just some stress has been imposed on us, then it's going to have a lot of negative effects on our life. We can look at the story of our break up and see it as an incredibly cathatic, growth driven time in our life. If you run a marithon, anyone listening to this who's ever run amarithan, you chose suffering. Anyone who listens to this who went to the gim in the last week, you chose Suffering. Or what if the suffering that was imposed on you becomes the suffering you choose? Then we realize there is a type of suffering that we actually choose.