How to Co-Partake in a Divorce

I would love your help with a twice daily struggle we have had with our three and a half-year-old for as long as I can remember hair brushing. She has thin straight shoulder length hair not particularly problematic in theory. A day care and educator tried to put a hair tie in and was met with a meltdown. Currently we have said that it's an expectation that must be met and that she brushes her hair twice a day morning and night. That way she has structure and knows that it's a non-negotiable but the tears and tantrums at the mention of hair brushing continue. We always want you to come to us with any questions and you're always there to just