Where Do You Turn for Comfort When Things Go Bad?

I have nightmares, not necessaryly literal nightmares, but nightmares about the church falling apart. I want to show up one week and nobody's here, because you've all decided to go to a new church. What do you worry most about? Losing, being poor, running out o money and retirement. Take my wife, vermenici. She loves the church, but she isn't obsessed with worry, like i am,. Because her identity is not wrapped up in the well being of this church. It's different for our children. Why i love my kids too, but my identity is not tied up in them. When you get depressed, when things are stressful, where do you