How to Communicate With Your Friends

Payton: If you want your friendships to last a long time they're going to ebb and flow. I don't think that's a bad thing at all but I would come at people with such intensity and expectation for them to show up the exact way that you want them toshow up. She says she has two best friends since she was 12 who have been together 16 years. They give each other grace for not being able to show up in the exact way we might all want all the time, which is adult friendship according to Payton. "I just brought one of them on an epic work trip to Rome and we literally had the best fucking time of our lives just being stupid together