198: Why We Become "Too Nice" When We Like Someone (And What To Do About It)
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
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Are Boundaries Important?
When humans interact, they like to know where they stand with each other. That's why boundaries are important. When somebody is just pleasing and being agreeable all the time, what we see is that person doesn't have any boundaries or respect themselves. And I think our ability to be able to stand up for ourselves, speak up when we have an issue with something, not have to be agreeable all thetime is actually the reason it builds attraction. It shows confidence and it shows a level of self-insurance in a way that it does if we're constantly just placating the other person.
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