Insel politics, liberated from mesogony, argues that we do all have a duty to interrogate the politics that underpin our desires to denaturalize and question them. But there is a sub redat r true famsels, where a recurring theme is the hypocrisy of insel men who claim to be too ugly or socially awkward to find love in sex but are explicitly uninterested in conventionally unattractive or socially awkward women. Famsels say that such men are not true incels, but valce voluntary celibates.