Ellen Langard was asked to help a 16-year-old golfer get more comfortable speaking in public. Her advice: Don't focus on yourself; Focus on the person you're talking to. She says she's found that some of her most creative ideas come from people who are just good, but they're not so out there at the same time.
How do you express yourself when you're not sure what you want to say? What’s the number one way to get people to listen to you? And why are letters to advice columns always well-written? Plus: An update to the NSQ drinking game.