"I'm not saying you can't lose weight or get smarter or make more money I'm saying none of that matters," she said. "If you're a retard at 38 You're not going to be a genius at 40." She also gave an example of someone who thinks he's like a hot surfer now but isn't. Jonah Hill told his girlfriend: If you need surfing with men, don't post pictures of yourself in a bathing suit and friendships with women who are in unstable places. 'These are bound are my boundaries for romantic partnership,' the actress wrote.