How My Wife Won't Let Me Meet My Daughter

My wife gave birth to a baby girl two weeks ago. My in-laws have met her, but my wife doesn't want them to see her and won't let the baby out of her house yet because she's only a couple days old. I saw this as a chance to invite my mom over to see the baby as long No As long as she kept it a secret But she came over and I told her we have roughly two hours before my wife comes back She then wouldn't leave no matter how many times I tried to convince her That led to her kicking me out too And now I'm staying at my parents until my wife calms down Am I the asshole for bringing my mom