Do women put effort into doing whatever would make men happy as best they understand it? Is that a thing? We see some yeses. But I think that's the trad wife talking. Maybe the trad wives do. It does seem like narcissistic abuse to put a man on a treadmill and never give him any positive reinforcement. If you understand what men want, then trying to please them seems like it would be crazy. Men just need a sandwich and a blowjob are both appreciation. They're basically physical manifestations of appreciation. And we work for appreciation. We're just appreciation animals.