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Don't Give Out Unsolicited Advice
Sally Kohn: It's common to give out advice when we see something, someone struggling to achieve a goal. We often think guidance is just the thing thy 're looking for, whether they ask for or not. But it s this pernicious downside that i think we don't appreciate enough and that is that it busts confidence. When you tell somebody, hey, like, i know how to do this, and you must not, you're basically telling him you're clueless, and i'm smarter than you. That's the downside of giving out unsolicited advice. She says there's one solution that you can find om advice. Giving advice makes you feel really good.
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