Thomas met Rachel in person about two months later it felt like an eternity she came to visit me in San Diego I asked a fellow seal to come with me and assist in bailing me out if Rachel turned out to be a catfish from the previous dating experiences so yeah I had my swing by the way to me and I had her picture and a flower the flower I kept hitting in my jeep just in case I had to make a last minute escape. Thomas: "I was scared out of my wits I extended my hand to her stiff as a board from head to toe and muttered hi"