How to Love Your Body No Matter What

I think everyone's vagina looks completely different. I personally have a lot of insecurity about my body and my vaginas since having a baby. You can't just, and it's too simplistic for people to say, well, your body made a baby. That's like, I am fucking proud of what I did. But I still struggle with the changes to my body. Like those are two states of being that I'm completely entitled to being. What we all need to learn how to do is to become better at advocating for ourselves in situations where someone else wants to put their issues onto us.