Is There a Mindfulness to Sexual Experience?

The book is about a couple who didn't have penetrative sex before they got married. The woman says it took three months for them to figure out sex, and then for years to come,. She doesn't know it was pleasurable for her. And like to your point, iy, there's no mindfulness, because any time sex starts coming up, you have a bad experience so you don't want to sill. More dissociation occurs, and it just continues a cycle of distress.And sex doesn't become fun. It becomes a chore. That's a hard one to come back from too.