iamsi: I'm just filled with fear and pain avoidance every time i hear something like that happens. Ye ber, i'm particularly surprised that in a relationship it sounds like everyone around you turned on you. Ai'm a really highly apathetic individual, and i'm very agreeable. And my x was, i mean, i would label her as a covert narcessis. She just kind of got everyone to turn on me. It's a very crazy situation.