
Fixing a Broken Picker: Changing How We Choose People For Relationships
Dharmapunx NYC
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How Do You Know if You Have Secure Attachment?
In childhood, when a child has an available soothing appreciative caregiver who delights in their child's development, the child develops a durable sense that they're safe to explore. And you can see this as early as year one and a half, 18 months. There's a famous test called the strange test, where the mother brings her 18 month child into the room. The stranger to the child is actually a child psychologist or therapist. After a while, the mother walks out of the room and secure children who have a good durable barn will respond positively.
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