The Defense of Narcissism

The depressed position is when we start to realize, maybe I have something to do with it. That's really what this parenting work is for. It's getting you to a safe, through a safe process to be able to say, I don't care if you're the CEO of the biggest company in the world. You have some stuff in you, right? The narcissist is suffering. But that's just the projection and we really call the projective identification.