Making Room for Failure

I think one of the cruelest things we do to ourselves is try to convince ourselves that love is always going to feel fun. And so when I think about the concept of love, I don't want to reduce it. But letting love truly be as big as it is means that there's it contains a lot of other feelings within it. So real love or real connection includes disappointment, frustration, anger, resentment, obligation, hardship and conflict. A life is so big, it has to encompass all those things being human. It's so vast and cool and massive that it has to encompasses all those things. We have to walk this balance between not always being at a distance, but also