The Problem of the Message Is Not the Problem of the Message

If you are just noticing and alert in the world around you, it is very likely that you will notice people who are on the surface who are good looking. We don't want our boys or our girls to be feeling like they have to be completely blind, or just have tunnel vision around humans. That's a terribly damaging message for our boys and young men. So then they feel like they are living in shameful sin simply for being alive and having eyes. Put the burden of responsibility where it belongs, on the person who is making cuses for lust,. not on messages that are intended to help educate boys and youngMen how to avoid becoming attics.