The experiences after a sexual assault can be in a lot of ways like even more damaging than the actual assault itself. We don't realize how this act will have ripple effects in our life and so then when we do have difficulties forming relationships breaking down at particular points is a society we don't know how to help or support those people. Adriana did a great job of sort of sharing with her like the guilt and shame and then she kind of like overcomes that right? So I think there's just a lot of you know misunderstanding misunderstanding I'm not even misunderstanding, says Kelly Wallace.