The repetitive nature of ADHD can really make apologies kind of a landmine area. A non ADHD partner at the, you know, they be there's a resentment and a frustration that grows with them. And then on the ADHD partner side of things if there is a regular and repetitive inconsistency or a problem that's coming up, you may want to set it as a target symptom for how you are managing your ADHD.