What Is the Aristry?

i went to a wonderful think tank run by an organization called the centre for scholars and story tellers. One topic was, am, how foster youth are seen and portrayed in stories, movies, shows. Another one was how the parent tten relationship is portrayed. I was at the table for a male identity, which was really fascinating. And i see it in them, you know, especially my oldest, where he's like, well, i guess i'm the bad guy, you know. That's not a way to grow up either!