"This whole respect culture thing for doing nothing needs to be thrown in the trash," he says. "You learn respect with a lot of different things, but you don't demand it." Michael Jordan never complained that nobody respected him because he commanded respect through his own work at the performance,. Kobe Bryant was up at 3 a.m. shooting free throws? Do you think anybody else on his team was up at 2:30 p.m. or 4:00 p.m.? It's very simple. People think that to lead, you have to be Vince Lombardi, or you've got to yell at people, or give these passionate speeches and shit"? That has nothing to do