"This is one dangerous thought about about work in general," she says. "If you're leaving the house miserable and coming home frustrated, that's not natural or normal" It's like finding the right job necessarily in terms of the technical requirements of the job; it's like the right place to be. If any of us went to our dads and said, hey, I'm going to leave my job because it's kind of a bummer, what would they have said? They'd probably say: Does it have benefits? Is it stable? Stay there for 30 years.