Ampathy Is What Will Get You There

Ampathy doesn't mean that you like the other person. When you really like somebody else, you don't need that much ampathy. Ampathy means that the outcome is important enough you that you are willing to exercise effort to get that outcome. So let go of our own self satisfaction and certainty in our correctness,. And imagining for a minute that we believe what they believe, then what story has to show up? You know, scott pare uses the term agency. If you give them the freedom to be who they are, you are able to dance with them so that you can both get what you want.