Is There a Difference in Gifting?

All four of us are in long term relationships. Have you guys noticed that your approach of gifting each other has changed over the last few years? For me now it's just transition from surprising him with things that i've noticed and now straight up asking, like, ok, what do you need? Because we're getting older, we don't have as muchspa for randomed unnecessary things,. And my boy friend is much more of a practical guy, like, he wants to have things are useful. Verses me, like, having practical gifts is great, but i also like, you know, jewellry, or, like, wal decorp or like art and,