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Esther Perel - Let's Be Better Lovers

The Imperfects

CHAPTER

I Don't Like Your Smell

The very thing that was initially attractive is often the source of conflict later. The person who doesn't feel well, or who feels powerless or despondent is often the person who has the power. This is true if you have an alcoholic in the house and a depressed person in the house. And so we all meet at the bottom. So how can I experience care without having to continue continuing to lift you? Because I'm available for it. It doesn't require because the other person can't change. That's right. What can we do with that? So one thing you can't change about yourself. Yeah. You sort of brought us something before that I've never thought about exactly

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