The Budding Order

When we are in a spiritual system where there is not adequate safety, whether you have named that or not, your body knows that you're not safe. And so if I'm relating to you from a place of stress and from scarcity of a scarcity of safety, but I'm not sure where I stand with you...that's going to actually signal to your nervous system that you should be afraid to talk about this right now. It's very hard because we expect church to be our safe place and we want it to be oursafe place. But often our bodies are telling the truth about that we don't feel safe"