You Can Still Have a Strong Preference to It

Any time you have a rigid demand, i must and a should, then the level of pain you'll experience if it does happen will be quite extreme. People try their best to be faithful, but sometimes sometimes people folk up. You're still entitled to request a consentual, monogamous relationship. But by having a strong, realistic, flexible preference, it means that there's now at least a fertile ground to discuss what happens going forward.