Being a Psycho, I'm Being Difficult

If we are investing our energy in trying to prove that somebody is or isn't emotionally available, what were doing is being present. We are too busy guarding against the past happening all over again. And a simple boundary can be telling ourselves, i know that you are afraid because of that time when you dated bla blas blas. But this is a different situation. If youare to judge somebody, judge them on the merit of this experience, not based on something that happened with somebody else. Keep your feet on the ground. Enjoy your time with them, but don't try and pressure you to have all the answers right now,. This is going to make you behave intensely and over