You've Had It, Yes, but I Don't Want to Diminish It

i'm disappointed that it has been a struggle for you to be happy and i understand that the depression is something that needs to be managed. The fact that he has a good therapist in this city that you're living in right now is no small thing. And what ver tensions exist within the relationships, are going to be exasperated by a move. If you haven't discussed the underlying reasons that he wants to make this move, and that you're feeling ambivolint about it,  it's very destabilizing to move. It's like the second most stressful thing to us, after the death of a loved one.