
Episode 240: The Best Revenge is Forgetting
Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
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Isn't It So Absurd That This Person Was Saying to Me?
"This is scary. It's hard to hear somebody say such horrible things to you even if the insults were stupid and untrue," she writes. "Even if I don't believe any of the words she was saying, the fact of it caused me significant harm because then, because so much of anger is often like trying to get the attention of everyone to say like this hurts." She also says people should not be unenlightened about wanting to lash out in a petty way against someone who has hurt them.
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