One of the most uncomfortable realizations is knowing that almost everything that's on your to-do list probably doesn't move you that much closer to your goals. People people make their to-do lists too long, there's anything it's a wish list anything in the planet that they might wish to do at some point or another and so um better to think of the to-doList more as a contract with yourself that if you're putting something on the to- DO list for the day or the week you really truly intend to do it.