Shane O'Donnell: I draw a picture on a piece of paper at the end of every month. It just says dashboard and I drive and it's a two by two. And in the center, I draw a circle and I write my icky guy. That's your guiding force. Now on the top, I've got two boxes. Top left is strong core. This is the stuff that pays your bills. Bottom right is best self. So if the top left is all green and the bottom right is all red, then guess what I'm telling myself next month? "I need to lean more into [my] best self," he says.