i have a lot of memories of sunday nights or monday nights were like, let's sayit was, the kid wouldn't sleep. And they're like, all right, you want to come watch football on a couch? i'm so glad we had a disciplined sleep system and i slept through the night starting it six weeks old. Ik, they'll have no recollection of that, whatever. No, no. They're g they're going to remember the things thit felt close and present and connected. It is not only not the worst, it may be the best.