In teleculture, you tell the other person what's going on in your own mind whenever you suspect that you both benefit from them knowing. You interpret things people tell you as attempts to create common knowledge for shared benefit rather than as requests or presumptions of compliance. In ass culture, you might say something like, can we talk about this another time? And then a guest culture person's like, oh no, if I had to say no, are they going to be hurt? And then they're going to say yes just to avoid trying to hurt you.

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