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Beyond Resilience — How to Become Shatterproof

The Art of Manliness

CHAPTER

Harnessing Pain for Personal Growth

This chapter explores the valuable role of acknowledging pain as a catalyst for personal development, framed within the context of self-determination theory. It highlights the importance of fulfilling basic psychological needs—confidence, autonomy, and connection—to foster intrinsic motivation and resilience. The discussion also contrasts 'shatterproof goals' with shadow goals, emphasizing the significance of genuine pursuits that align with one's true desires for a fulfilling life.

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