Is Your Relationship Restrictive?

Sometimes the beautiful part of a relationship is that those people are different. So there's no hard and fast rule to any of this stuff. But if you are walking aroundith this list of qualities that you seek, it's worth exploring how restrictive is this list? Is this list perhaps a defence mechanism from letting people get close to you? I have talked about this in the as and in a the context of what i was looking for  in a partner.