Do You Have a Relationship With an Abuser?

The noro chemicals of what you're experiencing with an abuse, even before pornography ever enters in, are a exceedingly bonding. An abuser is really trying to give you as many experiences of yes, so that at any juncture they might even want to say no. And it's a brilliant, but also tragic manoeuvre that we all learned to make, is to judge ourselves and to feel a level of hatred,. rather than being able to bless and understand that our hearts and our bodies wanted to say yes to something that was pleasurable or desirable.