What if My Partner Isn't Finding Me?

Many women in my practice share with me that they don't know their body, and at times they fake orgasm. The fact that sheis still touching her clith tells me that she feels comfortable around you. And it's important to acknowledge that from noticing that chatter that shows up for you and says you're not good enough. So i want you to get really good on labelling those thoughts so when that part shows up, you're not getting preoccupied with them. Do some grounding exercises before sex - we have this over anxious mind that gets loud in these situations which can create performance issues. If our body is on the fight and flight mode, it will not be able to experience arousal