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The Role of Leverage in Dating
When we ask for something, we usually need some form of leverage in dating. The problem with exerting control in a way like that is that it doesn't show control over the right things. Often when we do that and it's coming from a place of desperation and insecurity,. We are trying to make a demand at a time where we don't have leverage in life. If you ask someone to pay for something they don't want, there's no leverage there. In her case, what I gather from this situation is this is kind of a charming guy enjoying himself."