Is Heterogenormativity the Root of the Problem?

On the on a human level one can imagine allowing for reproduction to be rare or for it to be, you know, something that isn't exclusively the norm and for human flourishing to occur in much the same way. Even her mafrodites are not desirable for producing, you can have a mafriditic plants as well. You could still arrive at the same thing but via different methodology, which is not to disparage heteronormative desires or heterosexual desires obviously I think heteronormativity has is the root of the problem that's what needs to be problematized. And even by saying something as little as like think of the great ancient Greeks that we give all of this