Are You Not Feeling Close to Me?

I think so much of it is emotional um I think it is easy for us to say this is just a inevitable physical need with an inevitable physical solution but often it's so much more symbolic or relational right like what is the sex saying about our broader worldviews or our understandings of ourselves. We're two different people in different bodies with different sexual desires histories identities and and understandings of what sex is and what sex means yeah. No one wants to deal with that we should all you know like you've been just listening to you I want to run back to my my days and easy rules because I feel tired kind of listening to youbut then you know that's that's the trade off