Sex Scenes

I think it's especially hard with sex scenes though, or maybe it just really brings that difficulty, and you're really staring at how hard it is. I'm trying to titilate the reader, obviously, but that i'm not tring to forecloshe on that possibility for the reader either. So it did feel like i had to work within constraints to try and protect that sort of identification that you're talking about. It actually introduces this weird sense of voerism, or like, sseparateness from the character that was never there before. And it changes your a relationship to the characters.