Are You Afraid of Something Happening?

How is anybody going to grow up feeling whole? Because things just happend in families all the time. I always say, thank god it didn't happen. Do you then look back and say, oh, well, maybe that was my fear?" It's hard for me to quit because itus bad things happen to people every single day, murder and and i mean, it happens you every day, so why wouldn't it happen to me?