Am I Being Real?

Most of us have been raised to be good girls, which means good others and not good for ourselves. The real question you're asking is, am i being good because i'm good? Or am i doing this because it comes from a deep inner knowing within me? And that is going to require felake to sit with herself, to question, whose voice is this? That's your primary question. Whose voice am I following? The voice of the patriarchy or the voice of obedience?"