Saying No Is Hard Because It Changes the Way Things Are Going

To say yes means the world can proceed merrily along. I'm a dawis monk, but saying no stops everything from going the way it's going and forces it to either question itself or go another way. Most people like making other people happy, at least to some extent um. But at the same time, you know what? If that isn't what you should bedo in and this person's under a misimpression, you say, well, i'll just do it this time, because it's much easier than having that conversation with them. And then 50 years later, you're there in your still filing paper work in reverse alphabetical order because that's what they