"If you never lose it in front of your kid when they lose it yeah they'll how alone will they feel uh aliens or something's wrong with them," says Leela. "I'd like to think she doesn't feel unsafe if I bang my head and go fuck like she hears me at myselfYeah but maybe she did", adds her mother-in-law, who is also a psychotherapist. 'This is not my own that I'm gonna kill you face' was the last thing Leela wanted to hear from her father before he passed away.