i love magical realism too. I found it very helpful myself going through this grieving my cousin, whom i loght. That was like finding these little things that felt like this story or like these bits of magic are helping me to understand this. And a that is the buddhist approach. It's not about going, why was there an arrow in the first place? You've been hit with an arrow. You and cecily woke up in reality. So figure out how to make rupert spir as. This is god's dream, and it's our job to make it the nicest dream we can, which is kindness, compassion. Also, the other thing said,